Getting Her Phone Number Online
Getting a girls phone number online isn’t rocket science.
A simple, “what’s your number?” will do. If you’re dealing with a particularly feisty one, “give me your number” is better. It’s your job to understand what kind of personality the chick you’re dealing with has. You need to praise her like you should when she’s acting right, and “check” her good when she isn’t. Otherwise, you riggity “wreck” yourself…fool.
For a guy, the phone number thing isn’t a big deal. The Earth will still turn, the stars will still shine, country music will still suck… but still, chicks perceive this proposal as kind of a big deal.
That’s because phone number exchange represents a significant turning point in the online interaction.
You are both shifting from no investment, to at least some hopes and expectations. You want to minimize those expectations. Strive to keep it as casual, and “pressure free” as possible. The best way to achieve this is to joke about how “super serious” things are getting, and how you’ll never possibly agree on which backup dancers to hire for the big wedding day.
Still, there will be a long, drawn out moment of reckoning before she gives you, what is known in her mind as, “the high holy coveted digits of eternal trust”.
“What are his real intentions?…What if he’s a creep/weirdo?…what does it mean if I give him my number?…”, and most importantly, “Is this guy safe?”
This is why you addressed those concerns before going for the number close. If you don’t know how, fret not, for I will be covering all bases leading up to that big slide into home plate. Hell, you’re gonna stroll your way in there by the time I’m done.
You’ve got Bladelaw on your team 
October 12th, 2007 at 10:10 pm
Hey Bladelaw I got a situation. I met this girl in CPR training two weeks ago and a couple days later I found her on facebook. I got her SN but we werent able to have a conversation until this week. She has trouble with her mac using AIM? Anyways the convos have been short, usually one of us has to go after like 10 minutes. Obviously I feel this isnt working. Id like to get to know her better and go out to have a real conversation but I dont even have her phone number. My skills are truly underdeveloped when it comes to women so any advice would help.
October 15th, 2007 at 10:34 am
J,
Rather than scavenging around facebook for this chicks contact information, you’d have been better served asking her out properly in person.
Try shooting her an email on facebook that you were impressed by her crazy CPR skills, and that you want to get to know her better. Ask what her what her number is, and tell her you’ll try to give her a ring sometime later this week