The Importance of Having Sex Quickly
Had a cute latina chick in bed last night. Tons of last minute resistance. Her jeans stayed on, but she kept rubbing all up on me. She wanted it, but anytime I went for the pants or shirt, I got shut down completely.
Then right as I’m about to make a big violation move (lifting her shirt right off), she says “Blade…do you know what oxytocin is?” (this chick is a psychology buff). I say, “ummm, yeah”. Then she says, “do you have any idea what it does to us girls?”. Fuck man, that line hit me so strong; LMR isn’t about societal standards. It’s not anti-slut defense. It isn’t 1 egg per month, baby daddy drama or pregnancy. For women, it’s about *resisting* the emotional connection and bond that oxytocin solidifies. Once she gives in, she *knows* she’s a goner. That’s all it is. Emotional protection.
So, how can this knowledge help overcome last minute resistance? While I was about to ponder this great mystery, my primal brain took over, and I went for another violation (pants off). This time, she got quiet, offered NO RESISTANCE, and said, “do want to scare me away?” Damn. I hesitated, and in the next moment, she was putting her shoes back on :/
blue balls city.
She kept trying to make plans with me for Saturday as I walked her to the car, but I figured while she was “keeping it real” with me, I’d do the same for her. I said, “the chances of you still wanting to get together after tonight are slim to none. You’ll assume I’ll be expecting sex, which will make you feel obligated. You will no longer be in state, and you won’t be able to backwards rationalize how close we were tonight. As a result, you’ll just go radio silence at any further attempts at communication…just like every other girl I wasn’t aggressive enough with” Something to that extent. She just looked at me confused. “I’ts ok…you wouldn’t understand”
and with that, she gave me a kiss, got in her grey Toyota Camry, and drove off into the night. Just another what-if memory…