Who is Bladelaw?
I’ve been chatting online with babes all day since 1993
(that’s AOL 1.0 to you)
don’t be jealous.
The purpose of this blog is as follows:
#1. Entertain MYSELF
#2. Educate YOU
Anything else is a mere side effect.
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What, you want more??
OK, the following is a short interview I did last year:
1. Please introduce yourself in a few sentences!
My silly PUA name is Bladelaw, and I too am a woman lover. 28, Gemini, and enjoy long walks on the beach. My mom says I’m very handsome. Like yourself, I’m just a regular guy with his fair share of unique gifts and shortcomings…Unlike yourself, I go out with a lot more pretty girls.
I started out like most guys do. I hit up the bars and clubs, immersed myself in nightlife, and met enough low value, low quality girls to last a lifetime, with a few good girls in the mix. I prefer day game, and online dating now. It’s much more challenging, but the relative quality of girls I meet is exponentially higher.
I’m a fairly low energy, laid back kinda guy. I enjoy putting people at ease around me. I still get surprised at how far sincere praise and a warm smile goes in this world. I’m a big believer in treating women with chivalry, but only after they’ve proved themselves worthy.
2. What’s your story? How did you get into the game?
Before I got into pickup, I’d been with a grand total of 2 girls in my entire life. One was my high school sweetheart. The other was my fioncee that I lived with for 5 years, until the day she left me for a wealthy, older man.
Going through that experience left me broken, in every sense of the word. It gave me a complex insecurity about my looks, how much money I made, and the kind of lifestyle I could provide a woman, since she left me for what I perceived at the time to be a higher value guy.
But I think the main reason it hurt so bad, was because I was convinced I’d never meet another girl as “good” as her. I couldn’t talk to women. I didn’t know how to be social, or strike up conversations with strangers.
I looked around the internet, and eventually found mASF, and the teachings of all the guru’s; DeAngelo, Juggler, Mystery, etc. It was cool to find other guys committed to getting this stuff handled!
3. What was your experience like?
I couldn’t even talk to a girls at first. I’d stand there, my back against the wall, unable to move. Eventually I was able to approach, and get a conversation going. From there, I held conversations longer and longer, until about 3 months in, I had my first girl invite me over to her place.
After that, I was hooking up on a regular basis. I definitely lived the “player” lifestyle for a couple years. I’m glad I got the experience under my belt, but it got old, and it didn’t make me happy. I was tired of meeting low quality bar girls.
I wanted a better way, so I developed my online dating systems. Online game was always a supplement to my in-field pickup adventures, but when I finally perfected how to meet women of infinitely higher quality online, I said goodbye to the club scene for good. The rest is history!
4. Tell us about your current lifestyle! What role do women play in your life right now?
Well, I typically have 2 to 3 wonderful women in my life at any given time. Any more than that is just impossible to manage.
Getting girls is easy…keeping them happy after a few months is an art form unto itself…one that I’ve yet to master. Girls ultimately want an exclusive relationship. If that’s not in the cards, she’s eventually gonna move on to find a more commitment oriented guy.
Speaking of commitment, it’s my belief that every player is really just looking for the right girl to take him out of the game. I’d love to meet “miss right”. But until I do, I see nothing wrong spending quality time with miss “right now.” Most women have this same attitude about men, but RARELY admit it outside their close girlfriends.
5. Any parting words of wisdom?
I want guys to know that it’s OK to be a man who wants a lot of beauty. Not just want it, but to be comfortable enough to admit to yourself and others that you won’t settle for anything less, because you don’t have to. I love pretty girls. They’re my passion, and I plan to always have at least 1 or 2 in my life ;D
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Here’s a silly one somebody wrote about me to promote a seminar:
Say what you will about Bladelaw. Exploding onto the scene just last year, he’s quickly earned the reputation as one of the top seducers on the east coast. Community veterans, despite not knowing what to make of his creative conversation style, focus on fun, and laid back attitude, one thing is clear…Bladelaw is a new breed of PUA.
Never one to follow community doctrine or trends, Bladelaw explains how to bend “the rules” and develop your own personalized gaming style, all within the context of being a true to yourself, genuine guy. In fact, his students have reported that witnessing his game in person alone has improved their own body language and tonality after just a few minutes of observation.
But that’s not to say Bladelaw is all stock and no flash. He’s got a boatload of field tested techniques for manipulating value perception, sexual attraction, and the know-how to chalk up more wins in down by 1 situations than Kobe Bryant.
His sheer numbers of quality mLTR’s serve as testament, of a commitment to no one but his own high standards. A legacy reflected in his archives of detailed LR’s…still read by mASF’ers today.
But beyond the self made lifestyle, deep theory, and flashy techniques, Blade is just a regular, everyday guy, who happens to have a knack for turning average students into extraordinary ladies men. Equal parts individualist, and man of action, his message sums it all up… “Don’t just be yourself…be the best you, that you can be.”