Why Listen to Me?
I’m going to make some assumptions about you. I’m going to assume that if you’re here, you’ve tried online dating, and the experience wasn’t quite what you had hoped. In your search for answers, you found my site. Now you want to know if what I teach here really works.
With that in mind, I’m going to share with you a bit about me, my background, and my current lifestyle. That way, you can judge for yourself if you should listen to my online dating advice, or not. Cause let’s face it, there’s already tons of REALLY BAD internet dating advice out there.
For starters, I am your typical, everyday, late twenty-something white guy. No supermodel looks here. I’m not rich, and I’m not famous. I’m just a regular dude, who lives next door to you. The only difference is, I’m the guy that those beautiful, “unattainable” girls online actually go out with.
I meet 1-2 new girls per week…all met online. The ones I see more regularly include a stunning corporate executive, trendy hollywood actress, and a 19 year old cheerleader. All my relationships are honest and open, which allows me the freedom to date whoever I want, whenever I want.
Experience matters.
I’ve been practicing and perfecting the art of online dating for nearly 13 years. Within this time, I’ve met literally hundreds of women on the internet. Everything from gorgeous models, to MILF’s, students, business mavens, actresses, dancers, doctors, lawyers, you name it. I’ve won the hearts of every type of girl you can imagine, and I’ve also made every mistake in the book possible.
I’ve tried EVERY trick in the book for meeting girls online, from AOL 1.0 to Craigslist. I’ve been radically honesty, and experimented with being completely fake. I’ve joked, bragged, teased, complimented, neg’d, pursued, ignored, froze out, and courted.
I’ve had long term relationships (LTR’s) that lasted many years. I’ve had simultaneous multiple long term relationships (MLTR’s) too. And yes, I admit I’ve had my share of one night stands (ONS’s). I’ve been painfully LJBF’d (let’s just be friends), had FB’s (friends with benefits), and everything in between.
After all this experience, it’s nice to be at a point in my life now that I no longer need to date 2-3 new girls per week like I used to, just to feel good about myself. I don’t have to get a dozen phone numbers online anymore, just to prove to myself that I could do it. In the immortal words of Big Pun, “I don’t wanna be a player no ‘mo”
What I do want, and what is going to fulfill me now, is teaching others the 1 thing in my life that I’ve mastered…how to be successful with online dating.
13 years ago, when the internet was brand new, I would have killed to get my hands on a resource that would show me how to be successful with online dating. That’s what this site is dedicated to being. The greatest resource for REAL online dating advice that actually WORKS. NO FRILLS. I’m going to teach you what works, and on occasion, I’ll get into a little bit of why.
Don’t get me wrong, I still hit my sites every now and then, still get numbers, and still date. I guess you could say that after hundreds of girls, I’m still looking for, “the one” (ok, so I’m kinda picky…). But that’s the best part about getting online dating HANDLED….freedom of choice. Once you figure out online dating, you can date whoever you want, without ever coming from a place of scarcity or neediness.
As for me, I’ll be in “the game” until the right girl comes along who can take me out of it. But until that time…I’m gonna enjoy the ride 